Resolution Good Divorce Week – Practical Tips for Achieving an Amicable Divorce

When going through a divorce, it is sometimes hard to envision the process without conflict, legal disputes and excessive legal fees. The thought of what lies ahead can often be daunting and it can be hard to see the wood for the trees. That is why it is so important to choose the right solicitor to help guide you through the process and lay the foundations for an amicable divorce.

Good Divorce Week is an initiative led by Resolution, a national organisation of Family Lawyers committed to resolving family disputes in a constructive and non confrontational manner, which places the best interests of the family and children at the forefront. Good Divorce Week shines a light on these concepts and the lawyers who endorse them.

Good Divorce Week emphasises that an amicable divorce is achievable and can lead to a better outcome overall. Below are some practical tips on how separating couples can reduce the conflict when navigating a divorce.

Focus on the Children’s Wellbeing

Wherever possible, children should not be exposed to parental conflict, and there are ways in which this could be avoided, for example not disparaging the other parent in front of the children, and discussing matters away from the family home. This will assist in avoiding a situation in which the children feel caught in the middle, which can be distressing for them.

Seek Early Professional Advice

Seeking professional advice early on can set the right tone from the start as it ensures that realistic goals can be set and open and lays the foundation for honest and focussed communication can be laid, as opposed to point scoring. By gaining an understanding of your position early on, you can avoid costly and lengthy mistakes later down the line.

Avoid Viewing Legal Disputes as a Battle to be Won

This is often a pitfall made by many separating couples, and can distract from achieving a settlement that is fair to both parties. Divorce is not a battle and Good Divorce highlights that it is possible to transition from one stage of life to another with as much respect and clarity as possible. When divorcing couples approach divorce as a process of mutual cooperation rather than conflict, they create a platform for healthier communication, better emotional outcomes and more considered decision making.

Good Divorce Week reminds us that whilst divorce is never easy and can often be overwhelming, it doesn’t have to be ridden with conflict. If you would like to find out how our family team can help you, please contact us on 0800 8840640 or email [email protected]